On interracial dating sites, the users can make initial contact through messaging service both free or paid. There are some folks who think that they should learn how to message correctly in order to engage the ones they are interested in. But the problem is that there are some mistakes that they don’t realize.
If you feel that your message is not so compelling and just ruining your online interracial dating, it is probably not because of your style of messaging. The root problem is perhaps related to your actions. So, I am about to tell you 7 possible mistakes that you did or not yet, either way, you need to read these.
Mistake 1 - Send too many multiple messages
Either you are a man or woman, no one feels happy about receiving multiple messages without a chance to reply. Don’t be look like as desperate person who send the next messages before getting reply from the previous ones.
Mistake 2 - Very Late in responding
I know that we can expect longer time to contact by messaging means. However, don’t postpone to reply. When you get the message, reply immediately. Otherwise, you can kill the attraction.
Mistake 3 - Use coined words
Perhaps coin words are used to ease the communication. But there is no point in using that if your friend does not get the idea about what you are talking about. Keep in mind that interracial dating sites involves folks from many backgrounds. So it is not a surprise that your coin words do not work the same as the other parties’.
Mistake 4 - Too Long Message
I assume you know how long time you need to read an article. But imagine that if it comes from a person who tells you about the story of his or her life. Well, it can be what they did in one day. If you receive this one time, you can read it easily. How if you have 20 unread messages like these?
Mistake 5 - Tell Your Whole Story
Let’s imagine that you have 100 bullets and 10 hit target. You only need 10 bullets to hit, and you still have 90 bullets if there are other targets. It is the same as messaging in online interracial dating. You tell piece of your story. Make it as leverage so that you will never run out of ammo to impress your partner.
Mistake 6 - Too Many Jumbo Mambo Words
Don’t easily say “Hey, handsome / beautiful”. “Dear” or other romantic words if you don’t know the person you are contacting deeper yet. Believe me, messaging like these too early usually does not end up well.
Mistake 7 - Use Emoticons too often
I know that emoticons are greatest way to deliver your emotion through text messaging. However, there is a boundary to do this. Think about the boredom when you have used all of your emotes in one message.